Association of Foreign Spouses (E–pub READ) ï Marilyn Heward Mills

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Em all unlikeable and lacked depth Too many inaccuracies in the book eg Alfred becomes furious when his wife calls him silly and insists it s something that must never be used in GHANAIAN CULTURE THEN SHORTLY AFTER CALLS HIS DAUGHTER SILLY culture then shortly after calls his daughter silly alert but would Vincent really allow his wife to leave the country with his daughter An easy read but feel it needs a good edit and for the author to reassess how Ghana and its people are depicted From the perspective of a woman getting married and moving into her husband s home adopting her husband s family and living away from her own parents is tough in itself When the marriage brings together diverse cultures it becomes doubly difficult for her to adjust to the alien environment while preventing misunderstandings and avoiding giving offence That s just what happens when the very British Eva marries the solid Ghanian Alfred charmed by his stories of his motherland When she actually steps into her new home reality hits hardIt doesn t help that she has many differences of opinion with her mother in law who does not approve of her British daughter in law and finds her distant rude and strange Things become worse when Alfred has a protracted affair which results in a child uite understandably Eva is not willing to have any of it and fails to understand why her mother in law is preaching tolerance Eva s mother in law is preoccupied with thoughts of keeping the family together even if it isn t exactly her notion of the ideal familyOn the other hand Eva s friends who also hail from foreign countries and have married into Ghana are fighting battles of their own Dahlia has endured ears of domestic violence while keeping up a brave smiling front in public It is thrilling to read how the women get together to plot her escape and heartbreaking to see how the plan is thwarted by her monster of a husband Things have a happy ending to this story thoughYelena from Russia struggles to be recognized as a legal Ghanian wife and win the approval of her already married husband s family Abandoned during pregnancy by her husband Yelena runs her own salon in Ghana and fights for her marital rights every day on foreign soil The showdown between Yelena and her husband s first wife is uncomfortable to read but ou can help but feel for both women they have been wronged by the same manMargrit appears to have the ideal life living in uiet satisfaction with her husband and dog until one day he is snatched away by Ghanian terrorists and her house is destroyedmills has penned such a delightful study destroyedMills has penned such a delightful study human emotions and behavior under stress about women rallying together to help each other in times of distress about pulling each other up when they re ready to collapse Beautiful Ghana provides a vivid if sometimes chaotic setting for this second novel by Marilyn Heward Mills The main characters are four women who are transplanted from Europe Three are married and two are raising children The fourth has children but isn t married and fights an ongoing battle with the children s fatherThe women view themselves as living in an alien society To some extent and based on the differenc. Ildered her But Eva has her friends Dahlia Yelena and Margrit all of them strangers in a foreign la.

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Tic abuse and isolation but with memories about the awkwardness of being a foreignerMarilyn Mills has crafted a story about the lives of four friends all foreign all brought to Ghana by following the men in their lives and all carving out their lives as friends and sisters in arms in a country that reminds them everyday of their foreignnessThe characters in the book could have been any of the women I met during my time in Ghana from varying walks of life with varying nationalities and of different socio economic backgroundsThere is Eve an English woman married to Alfred and raising her three children whilst managing a comfortable if not close relationship with her mother in law Dahlia a Jamaican born English who uit her law studies married for love and moved to Ghana only to spent most her married life as a battered woman Yelena who is Russian is a single mother of twin boys running a HAIR SALON IN GHANA AND DETERMINED TO HAVE HER salon in Ghana and determined to have her acknowledged by their father and his family despite him already being married to someone else Margrit German is the only one of the four who has a stable marriage but who like the other three wears her foreignness like armourI enjoyed Mills s book her descriptions of Ghana and it s oppressive heat its dry harmattan season its tropical rains the smells cacophony of sounds the friendly people and their idiosyncrasies However I felt that all four of her characters deliberately isolated themselves in their foreignness Despite the ears all of them had spent in Ghana they all appear to present themselves as foreign in a foreign country and not as women married to Ghanaians raising Ghanaian children and immersed in the culture There is a sense of them whingeing about how things don t work in Ghana or the ineptness or indifference of Ghanaians to effect change in their countryThis was probably what made the book real for me for I have encountered the same type of people the disillusioned expats uick to point out how well things work in their country of origin expecting the country to change around them and them not change in order to acclimatiseMills balances the historical drama of Ghana in the 1980s the political instability the disappointment of the older generation in post colonial Ghana expressed through Eve s mother in law who had lived lived through British rule and a despondency in the post independence generation to the continually changing regimes It gives some insight into what Ghana must have been like in to the continually changing regimes It gives some insight into what Ghana must have been like in early ears of its independenceI am curious about Mills s first book Cloth Girl which garnered better reviews I found this book uite dull and hard to finish And I get annoyed when there are continuity errors in books where are the proof readers page 109 Dahlia apologies to Eva for ruining Joseph s day In fact this was Eva s anniversary party and the mother in law had later on organised a surprise baptism for Joseph which Eva and Dahlia both knew nothing about Small error I know but things like this really bug me Enjoyed the descriptions of Ghanaian daily life and communities but cringed at the racism naivety of the white characters throughout Found th. Red had made it sound heavenly but the hardship drained her of vitality and the foreign culture bew. ,
I enjoyed this one to begin with getting to know the characters and identifying with them as foreign wives However now I m a bit bored and have gotten distracted with a and identifying with them as foreign wives However now I m a bit bored and have gotten distracted with a Worth book I m not sure if I will persuade myself to go back to it171112 I ve returned it to the library If ou ve lived in West Africa as an expat Adam in Ochre: Inside Aboriginal Australia you will probably enjoy this book than others However for those ofou that haven t it is still a nice read if ou need something to read that isn t too heavy but also isn t so ditsy I heard about this book not long after I read Heward Mills about this book not long after I read Heward Mills novel Cloth Girl though it took longer than expected to be actually published I was very intrigued by the title as there is a real organisation here in Ghana called International Spouses Association of Ghana and like the group in Heward Mills novel it is made up of non Ghanaians married to Ghanaians So I guess I did wonder whether someall of the characters were based on real people Certainly the political and economic situation does ring partly true as I can personally attest having lived in Ghana s second city during the 1980s Overall I found this second novel not as interesting as the first one but it was still enjoyable I totally agree with one of the reviews that if ou are an expat who lives somewhere in West Africa then Breve diccionario artúrico you will find it familiar intriguing and enjoyable I live in Lagos Nigeria and I found this book totally fascinating as there is also an association of foriegn women Nigerwives And all the things the authors writes about happens also in Nigeria The whole point of forei I really wanted to like this book because I felt I d empathise with the foreign spouses OK so I wasn t married to a local but I did live in Africa I enjoyed the early pages where the descriptions struck a chord It s obvious she knows the country well and throughout the book she does a good job of describing the place the culture the politics etc But the story takes far too long to get goingAccording to the jacket blurb the plot is about these women s lives being thrown into chaos by a coup but the coup doesn t happen until page 120 The preceding 119 pages simply introduce us to the women and give us their backstories in tedious detail Even after the coup happens it s all fairly slow moving and by that time I simply couldn t care enough about these women to worry much about what happened to them Another thing which I found slightly annoying but only slightly was the unusual language I don t know if it s the author s background or if she was deliberately trying to be original but I was often pulled up short by an unusual use of words because I had to work out what she meant she leaned over the balcony and puffed out It wouldn t have worried me if she d been telling the story from the point of view of a Ghanaian every country uses English a bit differently but these women were English German and Russian having recently read Ghana Must Go The Association of Foreign Spouses a book based in Ghana transported me right back to this country which holds a special place in my heart Reading it was like reliving myears there without the themes of domes. Marriage to a handsome Ghanaian architect has brought Eva far from the uiet English countryside Alf. Association of Foreign Spouses